Transformation of lives at Teen Haven

He’s calling you by name, turn around and you’ll see who He is…..He loves you……He says that You have a purpose, hope and future……Faith, Accepted by Christ, Expressed In Truth…..FACE IT….

These are the statements, words and verses that have shaped our Teen Haven girls program: F.A.C.E. I.T.

He calls us by our names. He doesn’t call us in anger, He calls us with such a lovely voice. It’s full of grace, mercy, peace, forgiveness and love. It’s tender yet strong. It’s soft yet unmistakable clear. He even has our names tattooed on the palm of His hand. (well, maybe not an actual tattoo, but I like to think of it as one J)

I’ve called out a lot of names, but to be honest, I don’t call the way Christ does. When I call out someone’s name, many times it’s in frustration or in anger. One name really comes to mind. “LALY!”

5 months ago Maraly aka Laly walked into Teen Haven because she heard we were having a pizza party. After about a month, I said this to God: “Look, if she don’t come back it’s ok with me. I’ll pray for her and let someone else deal with her cause I’m about to get real “Madea” on this little girl!”

So needless to say, she was a heck of a challenge. And guess what God did next…He answered my prayer! and Laly came back to Teen Haven the following week! Talk about a sense of humor. Good thing God doesn’t always give us what we ask for; He does give us what we need. See, God began to show me how much like her I used to be and still was. I was literally looking at a flash back of myself at her age. Good kid on the inside, but everything she did and said on the outside was a desperate cry for attention. Most importantly He showed me how He didn’t give up on me and that He’s not giving up on her and that if I’m truly in this for Him and not for myself, I have no rights to give up on her either. So a little thing called conviction overwhelmed me! So, after a rough night, I dropped her off at home and told her exactly what God told me. “Laly, Jesus ain’t giving up on you, so neither will I.”

Since then, she’s given her life to Jesus, comes faithfully to Heir Born (girl’s bible study), has become one of our most faithful teens, won the TRANSFORMATION award and we’re looking forward to her coming on board as a student leader! Transform her life is what He has done and is still doing! How amazing that we get to work with Him as He does these kinds of miracles!

God is amazing. He loves the multitude, but the multitude come when they see Him working in the one. It’s amazing to see how He does this and how He continues to do it. He is responsible for the changing of a life. I just show up. He has even shown me His faithfulness through her.

Though I still may get frustrated, now when I call her name I am in nothing less than complete awe and amazement at what a mighty God I have. All praise and all glory to the real TRANSFORMER!!!!

Nina Maldonado • Lancaster Girls Program Coordinator

The Father's Love - Sent in a Letter

Recently, at Teen Haven Lancaster, the Girls Program in Lancaster spent an evening reflecting on God as our Father. The girls who attended along with volunteers and staff shared about their earthly Fathers, along with insights on discovering God as their Heavenly Father. I was so blessed to be a part of this time, and reminded of the amazing grace and mercies of our Heavenly Father that embrace and strengthen us to face even the most difficult of times.

The following letter was given to each girl to read (as if God had written it directly to them). Each girl was encouraged to underline the scriptures that revealed a new truth to them about God as their Father. It was a powerful time of transparency. As the girls shared about the scriptures that stuck out to them, there was hardly any that went unspoken. Their brokenness in sharing revealed that God’s love will reach deeper and stronger than the love of anyone on earth. As you read this "letter from God," may you be encouraged and reminded of how God has created you and has profound purposes in store for your future too.

- Janae Dagen, Teen Haven Secretary

Here's the scriptural "letter from God" that the girls journeyed through together...

My Child,

You may not know me, but I know everything about you. Psalm 139:1
I know when you sit down and when you rise up. Psalm 139:2
I am familiar with all your ways. Psalm 139:3
Even the very hairs on your head are numbered. Matthew 10:29-31
For you were made in my image. Genesis 1:27
In me you live and move and have your being.Acts 17:28
For you are my offspring. Acts 17:28
I knew you even before you were conceived. Jeremiah 1:4-5
I chose you when I planned creation. Ephesians 1:11-12
You were not a mistake, for all your days are written in my book. Psalm 139:15-16
I determined the exact time of your birth and where you would live. Acts 17:26
You are fearfully and wonderfully made. Psalm 139:14
I knit you together in your mother's womb. Psalm 139:13
And brought you forth on the day you were born. Psalm 71:6
I have been misrepresented by those who don't know me.John 8:41-44
I am not distant and angry, but am the complete expression of love. 1 John 4:16
And it is my desire to lavish my love on you. 1 John 3:1
Simply because you are my child and I am your Father. 1 John 3:1
I offer you more than your earthly father ever could. Matthew 7:11
For I am the perfect father. Matthew 5:48
Every good gift that you receive comes from my hand. James 1:17
For I am your provider and I meet all your needs. Matthew 6:31-33
My plan for your future has always been filled with hope. Jeremiah 29:11
Because I love you with an everlasting love. Jeremiah 31:3
My thoughts toward you are countless as the sand on the seashore.Psalms 139:17-18
And I rejoice over you with singing. Zephaniah 3:17
I will never stop doing good to you. Jeremiah 32:40
For you are my treasured possession. Exodus 19:5
I desire to establish youwith all my heart and all my soul. Jeremiah 32:41
And I want to show you great and marvelous things. Jeremiah 33:3
If you seek me with all your heart, you will find me. Deuteronomy 4:29
Delight in me and I will give you the desires of your heart. Psalm 37:4
For it is I who gave you those desires. Philippians 2:13
I am able to do more for you than you could possibly imagine. Ephesians 3:20
For I am your greatest encourager. 2 Thessalonians 2:16-17
I am also the Father who comforts you in all your troubles. 2 Corinthians 1:3-4
When you are brokenhearted, I am close to you. Psalm 34:18
As a shepherd carries a lamb, I have carried you close to my heart. Isaiah 40:11
One day I will wipe away every tear from your eyes. Revelation 21:3-4
And I'll take away all the pain you have suffered on this earth.Revelation 21:3-4
I am your Father, and I love you even as I love my son, Jesus.John 17:23
For in Jesus, my love for you is revealed. John 17:26
He is the exact representation of my being. Hebrews 1:3
He came to demonstrate that I am for you, not against you. Romans 8:31
And to tell you that I am not counting your sins.2 Corinthians 5:18-19
Jesus died so that you and I could be reconciled. 2 Corinthians 5:18-19
His death was the ultimate expression of my love for you. 1 John 4:10
I gave up everything I lovedthat I might gain your love. Romans 8:31-32
If you receive the gift of my son Jesus, you receive me. 1 John 2:23
And nothing will ever separate you from my love again.Romans 8:38-39
Come home and I'll throw the biggest party heaven has ever seen.Luke 15:7
I have always been Father, and will always be Father.Ephesians 3:14-15
My question is…Will you be my child? John 1:12-13
I am waiting for you. Luke 15:11-32

Love,

Your Dad

Almighty God

A Soup Party with a Purpose!!

For the last three years, Rick Anderer and his wife, Karen, have hosted a middle-of-winter party for some friends. But it’s not just any party; it’s a party with a purpose!

Tell us about the event.

Rick: This is the 3rd year I have held the “Anderer’s Soup Kitchen” event. We solicit donations from local restaurants and grocery stores. I send out invitations, and the guests bring a mug and as many non-perishable food items as they can. The day after the party, I take the food items to the Water Street Mission, have them weighed and then send out a thank you letter with the final results to all involved.

Why do you do it?

Rick: I had a brother who spent some time in a shelter in Atlanta, so this is very personal to me. It’s my way to help return the kindness my brother received.

What comments have your friends made about the event?

Rick: My guests love the event and tell me it is much more fun shopping for food than giving a monetary donation. To many, the shopping part is an event itself. They arrive telling me where they went, how they decided what to get and which things were the best bargains, etc. In addition, each guest drops off their donation on my front porch as they arrive. They tell me how motivating it is to see the pile growing as they arrive and depart. The large pile of food is something tangible, something they get immediate gratification from, and it inspires them to make it bigger. Some guests return the next day with additional items to do just that. Many of those who were invited but couldn’t make it drop off donations the next day, also.

What type of results have you seen this year? How did this year compare to other years?

Rick: This year the event donated 1209 pounds of food (during the big blizzard) as compared to last year’s 977 lbs.

Where did you get the idea for the event?

Rick: I got the idea from John Jarvis (a former head master of Lancaster Country Day School) who would have a yearly get together for all his neighbors on Charlotte Street. I modified it into a benefit.

Thank you Rick, Karen and all your friends, for your kind hearts!

What happens when someone asks for a glass of water?

"Can I have a drink if water?"- It was Friday night and the young ladies were settling in from the long bus ride and drying off from a heavy down pour. I noticed a young lady sitting at a table hugging and talking to her grey teddy bear. I approached her to see if she was alright. As we talked she told me her name Vicky* (12). She also shared that this was her first time at camp and that her teddy bear was named Kelly. I realized that Vicky would need some additional support and tender care throughout the weekend - she found some words difficult to annunciate, her right eye was a bit crossed; but her gentleness, smile, humor and needs were gifts that erased any physical distraction or limitations.

Vicky looked up at me and asked for a glass of water. My response was immediate and we became friends. Natalie* (17) wasn't feeling well and asked for a cup of hot tea. My response was quick and I made another friend. As cabins were being assigned, Vicky and Natalie became cabin mates. As they were leaving for their cabin, I pulled Natalie aside and asked her to keep a caring eye on Vicky. She smiled and assured me that she would care for Vicky.

The following morning I made sure that Natalie had her hot cup of tea and got an update on Vicky. As the week end went on, where Vicky was, there was her friend Natalie. Saturday morning, during chapel, I spoke of the love and tenderness of Jesus. As I started speaking, Vicky raised her hand and asked for Kelly. She left her teddy bear in the cafeteria and felt lost without it. An intern immediately left to retrieve Vicky’s teddy bear. As Vicky sat there, I could not help but equate and relate to the warmth and security of being in the arms of Jesus to the relationship that existed between Vicky and her teddy. The Holy Spirit painted a beautiful picture of forgiveness and a need of a love relationship with the Father through His Son. As I related campers but especially Vicky was able to relate.

Saturday night we watched the Jesus movie and Vicky responded to the love of Jesus. She was first to respond by a raised hand to the call of salvation. Sunday morning we read and meditated on "Bless the Lord - Psalm 103". I gave the campers and interns an opportunity to give praise and to thank the Lord for something. The first to raise her hand was Vicky. There was a hush in the chapel as she clearly expressed her heart praise to her Lord. "I want to thank God for loving me. I thank God for having me come to camp. I like it here because everyone here loves me." That set the tone for waves of praises from the rest of the group.

To think, it all started with a glass of water. It reminded me of another lady who asked Jesus for water and received the same water that satisfied the soul and yielded eternal life.
The Lord is so good!

Blessings in Jesus.
- Vinny Mikusow, Teen Haven Camp Field Director
*names in this story have been changed

Staff Reflections from Poverty Simulation

This week I attended a poverty simulation where I played the role of a 20 year old single mother who was trying to attend college. We were given a limited amount of money and transportation vouchers, etc. and by the end of the simulation, not only was I getting evicted, but I hadn't gone to a single class and had only fed my family for half the month! It was sooo stressful! The morning was really eye opening as to how confusing our systems can be and the importance of good relationships between agencies, non-profits and churches.
After the simulation we all shared our frustrations and ways we can use what we learned to better work together (the room was full of real representatives from local agencies/non-profits) to service those who come to us for help.

Another staff member played the role of a 15 year old girl, whose irresponsible father lost his job because of being late to work too many times. Meanwhile as she tried to balance school and a part time job she was constantly worried about whether or not the family was able to survive. It was easy to see how quickly this young girl began carrying burdens from the whole family , and isolating from neighbors, and classmates who weren't taking a proactive approach to supporting her and her family during their time of need.

This simulation was presented by the Community Action Program and hosted at the Family Center of Gap. It was an awesome way to see each other in a new perspective and emphasize the importance of relationship between all of the providers there!
- Carrie Keagy, WSM Graphic artist

To learn more about the Community Action Program visit:
http://www.caplanc.org/Index_files/Index.htm

What Is Love?

I can still remember those afternoons in elementary school, toiling over piles of red construction paper, white lace, and heart templates. Between the plastic safety scissors (did they even have cutting edges?) and my painfully awkward pre-teen hands; it was a miracle any project requiring even a remote sense of dexterity was ever accomplished. But I didn’t care what it looked like; I didn’t care how long it took. It was the 14th of February and I needed my valentine box. How else was I going to know that I was loved? That I was accepted? See, the box was the key, I had it all figured out.

When we grow up we lose our beloved valentine boxes, full of reminders that we are loved.

But, then I graduated to junior high, where the school system decided it was time for me to become an adult. Algebra, shop class, and sex-ed. My idea of love, that bright red heart-shaped box full of valentines was replaced by popularity contests and teenage crushes. My youth pastor, whom my parents made me visit, offered little refuge. He just handed me a billion page book with silver page edges he called the Bible. “Now that you are an adult,” he instructed, “its time you learned about real love.” I faintly recalled seeing a similar book under the left TV stand leg for stabilization when dad watched the big game. How could this religious tome possibly take the place of hand-crafted valentines?

When we grow up we are expected to express love for each other without the help of cupid, barbies, or popular celebrities on card stock.

The bible, as I later discovered, at its most simplified core is simply a collection of stories. Each one, a narrative of God’s engagement in its character’s life. Each one, a depiction of the community we share. Each one, a love letter, passed from generation to generation, to encourage individual’s who need to hear its words. And for a long time I believed the only place to interact with God was to read these letters, these ancient stories.

When we grow up we must instead be willing to rely on each other to show and be shown the love that God has written into our lives.

But the stories continue on, throughout history people have relentlessly documented their engagements with the Lord. Just because these stories are not collected in an anthology and blessed by a priest, does not make them any less valid. In fact, each one of us has dozens of our own stories to tell; a ‘living bible.’ A testament to a love that sets us free. Letters of love and acceptance. Valentines from our Lord; to give to others.

And since the bible is no longer accepting entries for future publication; we must instead hand deliver each letter to our neighbors who need to hear its message. The valentine in your box. For there are people in this world who need to hear your story; and there are countless stories written by others that you need to hear.

By Jon, Volunteer

What does it mean to be righteous?

I came to work knowing what was on my agenda for the day. I had one meeting and a ‘To Do’ list to get accomplished. However, upon opening my e-mail I discovered a project that was given to me and told “Urgent priority for the day.” This project had to be completed by the end of the work day. The first thought to enter my mind was “What? I have my day planned! How can I accomplish a project in an eight hour time-span that usually takes weeks?” My second thought was “This was handed to you for a reason. Do it and don’t complain.”

This second thought stemmed from a church message the previous Sunday that focused on what it means to be righteous. The word righteous in our culture can carry a negative connotation of doing all things right, which seems pretty pious. However, the meaning expressed in scripture is something totally different. Righteous is doing right by God.

This is how I approached my surprise project for the day! I needed to do right by God. I needed to assess the work load with a clear mind. I needed to ask questions like: What information do I need to gather? Who do I get this information from? Do I have enough time to achieve the project in a well presented manner?

At the end of the day I achieved the project with God by my side the entire time! I was challenged. I overcame the negativity that wanted to consume me, which was not easy by any means. Looking back on the situation, even if I didn’t complete the project due to the time constraint, I still would have done right by God. Why? Because I addressed the situation in a positive way not letting negativity get the best of me, which is doing right by God. Thank you God for a lesson learned!

Jennie Heydt, Grant Coordinator

Wonder Club Staff Art & Prayer Session

Each Wednesday the staff of Wonder Club Early Learning Centers meet together to pray. During a prayer session that I was leading this time, I decided to focus on our Core Value of Dependence Upon God.

This core value, “Dependence Upon God,” states that, “We look to God as our source of vision, provision, and transformation.”

So after reading and reflecting on this approach to ministry, we did an activity about what that means to us. We used glue sticks and colored construction paper to make art about it. Below are the pictures of what we created, along with a short statement by each “artist” about their piece. I thought it was neat to see what was created and what God spoke through that.

Nicole Imhof • Teacher/Site Supervisor Wonderclub Early Learning Centers


As we depend on God we need to take what He gives us and what He takes away. God does not just give, give, give, sometimes He takes away too and we need to continue to trust and depend on Him during those times also.





As God spends time with me and I spend time with Him and I experience His love, light and truth, I in turn impart His love, light and truth to the students I teach.






The reason I made this is to remind me of the sun rise and sun sets. When I see them they remind me of God’s love for me and how powerful and in control God is of all things and circumstances.






I made a little mountain out of glue stick. Then I placed brown (typical mountain color) construction paper smoothly on one side of the mountain. The back side of the mountain had unusual mountain colors randomly/roughly placed. Dependence upon God reminds me that the dependence is with all of me… especially in the rough places. That (the back side of the mountain, the “rough” places of me) is where God’s beauty really shines through. Therefore the arrow is pointing to the back side.

The Lord’s voice is mightier than the waves of life. Smoke will come out of his nose if anyone touches His children. The Lord our God is a sun and shield. He gives grace and glory. No good thing would He withhold to them that walk uprightly. Our God is an awesome God.