Teen Haven theme for Summer Camp 2009

Teen Haven Summer Camp is only 2 weeks away. So, there is much excitement in the air as details and plans come together in preparation for the hundreds of youth that will attend camp.

This summer, the camp messages will be centered on this theme...

As I’ve pondered the relevance of this message of how our strength is from Him, I believe it has incredible potential to impact the youth attending camp. God’s calling has the ability to cause the youth to step up their faith to a new level of endurance; empowering them to become strengthened, stretched, and equipped for the challenges and opportunities ahead.

Psalm 68:35 (New International Version)
You are awesome, O God, in your sanctuary;
the God of Israel gives power and STRENGTH to his people.
Praise be to God!

Join me in praying that as youth prepare to meet with God, this summer….

- That in the woodsy sanctuary they would experience peace, solitude and the beauty of nature,

- and that through the crazy games, sports, gym and camp activities,

- along with times of sharing and accountability during chapel, cabin devotions, campfire chats and Bible studies

… That the awesome presence of God would reveal itself to each camper, and that they would feel God’s saving grace, acceptance, and unconditional love – each which invites them to be strengthened in Him!

As I lift this prayer up for the youth, my hope is that I too will never get satisfied in my walk with God. It’s exciting that I have the privilege to go to His sanctuary (at home, at work, or anywhere)… but only IF I CHOOSE TO LISTEN for the calling of God, which urges me to become stronger, in Him alone. It’s through those “ah-ha” moments of peace, and surrender that as we put our trust in him, I believe he’ll speak to us a new challenge –to overcome obstacles, and to become stronger, as we journey with Him.

Janae Dagen – Teen Haven Secretary

A story about Al

“I’m having a ball,” says the gleamingly upbeat Al as we share a conversation over lunch. It’s been 21 months since Al graduated from the Christian Life Development Program, and he is still bursting with energy and enthusiasm when he shares how God is continuing to bless his life. “I never thought I could have fun,” says Al.

Since moving out of Water Street Mission, Al maintains a close relationship with the Mission and has established his own form of ‘outreach’ ministry with the clients. On any given day you can find Al ‘reaching-out,’ whether it be roaming the halls chatting and joking with staff, sharing his testimony with the clients, or feasting in the lunch room. “The Word is not just for me, I’m here to spread the Word,” says Al.

When you can’t find him at Water Street Mission, Al is an active member of Faith Tabernacle Church of God in Christ in Lancaster, Pa. “I joined the choir, and tried to be at every event,” Al said, with ‘event’s’ meaning anything from small group-oriented bible studies to Vacation Bible School for children. The pastor of Faith Tabernacle, Gerald Simmons, has become a close friend and mentor to Al. When Al was still a client, Pastor Simmons would come to Water Street Mission every Sunday and take Al to the services in the church van. Through repeated visits to the church, Al felt God was asking him to, “Try me. If you don’t like me, what have you lost?” The invitation was life changing.

Today you can still find Al singing hymns and discussing verses with fellow passengers on the way to church from behind the steering wheel. Having worked many years as a bus driver, Al has taken over responsibility of making sure others get to the services every Sunday. “I invite them [friends and clients of the Mission] to my church,” Al explains, “And when they start telling me they live too far away to come, I ask, ‘What’s your address? I’ll come and pick you up. What’s your excuse now?’” He says he’s “doing for others what others have done for me.”

Being a part of Water Street Ministries and Faith Tabernacle Church of God has shown Al the value of quality and healthy relationships. “It is important to know someone will be there if I need them,” says Al. These strong relationships have grounded his life and provided a positive alternative to reverting back to his old patterns. “Prayer is the key,” states Al. “Trying to live day to day, following God’s word.”

- Jon Sullenberger, volunteer

Lives changed through Teen Haven Camp

In the letter below, we hear the excitement of Chanea, a Teen Haven alumni, as she shares how through her involvement at Teen Haven, God impacted her perspectives and calling for the future. Listen, as she shares her gratitude in the letter below to Vinny Mikusow, the Field Director at Teen Haven Camp...

Hey Vinny,

I just wanted to say how honored I am to have worked with you all these years! I have learned so much from this ministry and from you. I didn't grow up with my father, so I was never taught what to look for in a man.

I remember at camp one weekend years ago, you spoke about what to look for in a man. Your sermon was basically on Godly men. You brought up two men, Boaz, and Joseph (Mary's Husband). It was that sermon that got me thinking on what it is I look for in a man that the Lord might have for me. My standards for guys became high. I knew I wanted a godly man, because I wanted something better for myself. I wanted to please God with my relationship when I got into one. Even now my standards are still set in stone. I have watched so many healthy marriages, and it has helped me know what I want.

I know I want to please God in all I do. I want to be so indwelt with Christ that I see no man, until He (Christ) lays him before me. It’s hard, but I know I have to have faith and trust in God no matter what. I said a prayer to God recently. I prayed, "Lord, I give you my heart, because you take care of it far better than I do. You protect it as if it were the rarest jewel. Since you have my heart, that means I can’t just give it to any man. When it’s time, you will give my heart to the one you will have for me. Amen."

It took a while for me to totally get to this point. I’ve waited so long, and it seems like everyone is getting married. Yes, I long to be married.

I wanted to thank you for being my spiritual father. I know I don't get to see you often, or always talk to you, but you’re always there ready to listen. Each time I talk to you, my respect for you just goes up. I have the highest respect for you. You’re an honest, devoted man of God. The lifestyle I chose to live was one to honor God but also because I was taught how to be a woman of God from you and Ms. Oddet. So thank you again for everything, all the encouragements, and talks.

Love,
Chanea - Teen Haven alumni

What Teachers Do

Ephesians 5:1 Be imitators of God, therefore, as dearly loved children

Imagine the excitement of the Wonder Club Early Learning Center students, (pictured on the left) when their teacher arrived in full costume to tell the story of David & Goliath. It is through this type of creativity that children learn and grow together.

Most people who think about Water Street do not think about a preschool and kindergarten program. But one of the little known divisions of Water Street Ministries is the Wonder Club Early Learning Centers, a preschool and kindergarten for low income families in the city of Lancaster and the borough of Columbia. Each day between forty and forty five children arrive at Covenant United Methodist Church and twenty to twenty five at Columbia Mennonite Church for a day of learning. Another four to six are in the classroom we have at the Women’s Shelter. The job of corralling these eager beavers every day falls into the hands of our very competent Wonder Club teachers and assistants.

Do you ever think about the many hats a teacher wears in the space of one short day? Teacher, mom, grandmom, (sometimes dad or granddad –even though we are all women), cook, nurse, plumber, dishwasher, artist, counselor, psychologist, bathroom attendant, mediator, child care worker, bus driver, referee, librarian, repairman, comedian, – just to name a few. Perhaps no occupation requires more versatility and flexibility than that of a teacher.

The teacher must be alert and awake and ready to handle any thing that comes up in the space of a day. No matter how she feels emotionally or physically, she must appear to have it all together and ready to function. She must be able to think on her feet when suddenly what was working, no longer does and she needs a new idea to try. Teachers often talk about their “toolboxes”, that wealth of ideas on which to draw at a moment’s notice. They are always comparing notes with other teachers about what works and what doesn’t. They willingly share ideas and are not ashamed to “borrow” a good idea from someone else. They are always looking for ways to make learning a fun experience for the children in the class.

In May we celebrate Teacher Appreciation Week. If you haven’t had an opportunity to tell a teacher (whether a WC teacher or another teacher) how much you appreciate all they do, take the time to say “thank you!”

-Lorraine Brandt, Wonder Club Administrator

Pictured on the right, Wonder Club students circle in prayer time along with their teacher.

Spring 2009 Graduate – Men’s Discipleship Center

David Nein, a recent graduate of Water Street Mission, reflects about his experience living in community through the Men’s Discipleship Center and how his life has truly been changed!

(above, David is pictured with his counselor, Jim Stanton)

I'd like to thank God for allowing Water Street Mission and Breakout Ministries, my church family, to be a part of my life and its changes. When I look back 13 months ago I couldn't see the reason I was even alive, I had no life. I lived to have another drink and do more drugs. I hurt the ones who cared about me the most. I couldn't see anyway out of the life I was living, I felt hopeless and helpless.

Now, I see how relationships built on love, honesty, caring, and compassion are the relationships God wants for me. I am building new relationships and mending the ones I've misused with my family that were good. Thank God I have a biological family that still loves me after all I put them through. The congregation of Breakout Ministries and my mentor, Mike Pierce, accepted me as I was and walked alongside of me throughout my journey here at Water Street Mission. A big risk with a great outcome happened when I visited a Bible study that I can walk to nearby in Lancaster city. Sam Pagan, the group leader, drew me to him through my respect for his knowledge of the Word of God and watching him walk in faith with his family. Mr. Pagan is now my second mentor.

My future looks so much brighter now than it ever did before. I have a long road ahead of me, but I know God will be with me to walk me through it. I must continue to trust that God is in control and include the people He has put in my life in every decision I make. I will never forget where I came from and how I got to where I am now. Last fall I was baptized to proclaim my faith in Jesus Christ. Membership into the Breakout Ministries congregation became official this year and with the friendships I have made I am now involved in the Hospitality Committee. These positive experiences encourage me to invite other people to take the risk and get involved in a local church that partnered with Water Street Mission and its programs. I did!

-David Nein, Spring 2009 Graduate of the Men’s Discipleship Center at Water Street Mission


(David Nein, along with the entiring graduate class and several staff are pictured together on the RIGHT)



For more details on the Men’s Discipleship Center visit our website at the following link: http://waterstreetministries.org/Ministries/WaterStreetMission/MensDiscipleshipCenter.aspx

Changed Lives at The Lydia Center

Sometimes I feel like a cheerleader watching a great “play” unfold when I see God transforming the lives of the women at the Lydia Center. One of those ladies whom I have the pleasure of working with is Lori. Lori has struggled with alcoholism since the age of 17 and battled with anorexia since she was 29. Now, at 42 she is a resident at the Lydia Center and has made several life changing decisions.

She writes:
“Since coming to the Lydia Center in October of 2008 many changes have occurred in my life. I have come to know Jesus Christ as my personal savior. I feel that God has put the ladies at the Lydia Center in my life. I am learning how to build friendships again and how to reach out to others. One of the best things about my relationship with God is that I know that God is always with me no matter where I go. I always have someone to talk to and pray to. The best thing of all is that God has given me a sense of peace inside and has filled the void in me that I have been searching to fill my whole life. I also have the love and trust of my sister again and that means the world to me.”

Lori also appreciates the opportunities she has in the Learning and Career Center. She is learning different programs on the computer, how to budget money and how to improve her work skills for the future.

In my five months knowing Lori, her whole demeanor has changed. In my first few meetings with her, she did not have much hope for her future and had a dismal outlook on life. I am simply amazed at the transforming power of Jesus in Lori’s life. Since God has come into her life Lori has been participating in classes, identifying lies and replacing those lies with God’s truth, and is falling in love with his Word. When I think of Lori’s life I think of the promise in Jeremiah 29:11 that God desires to give us a future of hope.

So, I will continue to cheer as I watch the exciting work of God unfold in the changed lives of the women at the Lydia Center. All glory and praise belongs to him for he is good.

Joy Gehman, Case Worker – Lydia Center

Happy Voices

It had been a long, busy day. Full of interruptions; God’s divine appointments, I like to remind myself. For brief moments throughout the day, the halls were silent. The K-4 class was taking their nap; Pre-k had gone to music class (thank you God for wonderful volunteers who dedicate their time to our little ones), and the Kindergarten was out to recess. For a brief half hour it was quiet, almost too quiet especially when the hum of little voices is usually somewhere in the background.

But now it’s 3 o’clock in the afternoon and the school day has just ended. Parents are arriving to pick up their children and I am suddenly drawn out of my reverie by the sound of happiness. The children are bubbling over with enthusiasm just to tell their parents about the joys of their day. Excitement and enthusiasm abounds. Suddenly the ordinary seems extraordinary. There is joy in saying good-bye to their friends, not just one time but multiple times as they walk out together. The joy of greeting Mom or Dad or Grandparent or perhaps even the babysitter erupts in happy laughter in the excitement of telling about the day. Some of our children love to go around to all the teachers and say good-bye and give hugs. And sometimes just to say “I had a good day today.”

It’s these sounds of happiness and the joy we see on little faces that keep us going day after day!

-Lorraine Brandt, Wonder Club Administrator

Allowing Interruptions to become Opportunities

Recently, in the parking lot right outside Outreach Ministries, Conrad Moore spent about thirty minutes with a man he intended to spend no more than five minutes with. Through this time of sharing he had the opportunity to lead this man to Christ. Although it seemed inopportune, God revealed that he had other intentions for the situation than were visible at first glance. Sometimes we encounter opportunities that seem more like interruptions in our schedules.
Conrad shares more…

Tom Smith was looking for a coat and was being rather persistent that it was urgent for him. Although I was thinking that I was way too busy, for some reason I came to understand his desire, and I was compelled to listen.
“Why are you just noticing that you have an urgent need for a coat? Did you sleep through winter?” I asked.
“I was in rehab,” he said. “And I gotta walk to Columbia for this job interview and it is cold.” Interestingly, the temperature wasn’t very cold and I pointed out that he already had a coat on.
Tom responded by stating, “Not warm enough. I need something under it maybe.”
After a big sigh I said “OK, but I’m really busy you have to do this in five minutes or less.”

While we were looking for a coat I smelled alcohol on his breath. I suggested that he reschedule the interview. “You are obviously not drunk and your eyes aren’t even red but the interviewer will still smell that alcohol just like I do.” He agreed it was a good idea to reschedule. I shared a bit of my history with substance abuse and 20 years of victory over it.

We came out of the clothing outlet into the bright sun lit parking lot. Just then almost as an afterthought as we were walking away from each other he said, “Now tell me again how you got sober.”

Although I thought I had just told him, I realized maybe I went too fast, so I shared again. “Long story short, I crawled out from under the Fourth Street bridge in Allentown went to the mission where I asked Christ into my heart at the evening service. What got my attention that night was a man who said ‘brother you look like you need God’s attention.’ He was right.”

Tom said, “That’s how I feel right now, like I need God’s attention.”
Much more conversation took place, and then I asked if there was a reason keeping him from asking Jesus into his heart right then.
He said “I’d like that. I really need Him.”
“Have you ever asked Him before now?” I asked.
He said no.
I led him in prayer.

Obviously, this encounter was not about the coat. I thank God for helping me see that. Seems we never know where, when or how God wants to use us. I love it when he does this kind of stuff.

It is humbling to think that my job duties almost got in the way of what God wanted me to do this morning.

Let’s keep Tom in our prayers.

Conrad Moore - Director of Community Ministries

Please pray...Teen Haven Leadership Conference

On Friday, May 29, through Sunday, May 31, Over 70 teens (Teen Haven youth along with youth and leaders from local churches) will join together at Teen Haven Camp for ILLUMINATE 2009. This weekend is Teen Haven's Spring Leadership Conference and participants will be able to be challenged and encouraged to grow as leaders through workshops, fellowship & worship. The focus of the conference will be on these three topics:
- Who is THE LIGHT?
- Walk in THE LIGHT
- Carry the LIGHT

Will you join us in prayer as we lift up the workshop speakers, youth, and staff involved in Teen Haven's Spring Leadership Conference?

1 Peter 2:9 “But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people belonging to God, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful LIGHT.”

As I've been thinking about the concept of "Illuminate", I believe that God’s eternal light desires to ignite, illuminate even, each of our lives with a flame of hope and healing for the brokenness inside us and around us. When we choose to follow His calling I think we too can allow this light of life to beam inside of us… May we respond as God’s chosen ones and through His love… become a holy nation, and step up as ambassadors of praise to the darkness. And may we surround these young leaders with prayer as they desire to encounter the eternal LIGHT during ILLUMINATE 2009.

- Janae L. Dagen, Teen Haven Secretary

Photo, above, of Youth Leader's enjoying some down time at Teen Haven's Spring Leadership Conference 2008

Serving and Supporting

Lately I've been giving thanks to God for all the people and especially families I see supporting the homeless. I've recently had 3 invigorating conversations.


First, I discovered that an exmissionite at a local nursing home (recovering from a head injury and month long coma!) indeed has family that cares about him and visits him regularly!

Then, just Friday I met a lifetime neighbor of one of our men in the Christian Life Development Program. He was glad his friend was getting help and wanted to stay involved in his life.

Finally, I had an encouraging conversation with a step grandfather of a former resident who left the mission very upset with me. The step grandfather helped me understand some background from the ex resident and he told me how they were reaching out to him but also holding him to boundaries.

In each of these conversations I am aware of the importance of relationships in our resident's lives - even if it isn't family - relationships are SO important. It's an honor to work with friends and families of our residents.

I thank God for all the friends and families of our residents past and present and I pray for even more to get involved. If you're interested please contact our Men's ministry director Aaron Eggers @ 358-2026

P.S. I am also constantly reminded of how blessed we are as staff at the Mission to have so many agencies in Lancaster County that we have the privilege of working with and who help our residents in so many ways. How lonely it would be……

-Chuck Albrecht, Men’s Ministry

his FAITHFULNESS endures

Even in the midst of trials, adversity, and fear God’s FAITHFULNESS shows up in many unexpected ways for both residents and staff at Water Street Ministries.

The scriptures and testimony below express how worthy our God is for the faithfulness he shares with us. He continually reveals that no matter how small or large our needs may be, HE has all we could ever need.

Isaiah 25:1[ Praise to the LORD ] O LORD, you are my God; I will exalt you and praise your name, for in perfect faithfulness you have done marvelous things, things planned long ago.

Psalm 115:1Not to us, O LORD, not to us but to your name be the glory, because of your love and faithfulness.

Psalm 89:1I will sing of the LORD's great love forever; with my mouth I will make your faithfulness known through all generations.

God's FAITHFULNESS at The Lydia Center:
I love watching God supply our needs at the Lydia Center. As I have worked in the donation room over the past few months, I have noticed toiletry items that are running low. Usually, within the next two weeks, we receive donations of these items. This happens without ever mentioning these needs to anyone. I am learning not to be surprised by God’s faithfulness in meeting even the smallest of needs.

- Donna Doutrich, Ministry Assistant, Lydia Center

Royalty Revealed through "Esther Treatment"

Last weekend at Teen Haven a group of 8 girls came to the first ever “Esther Treatment Retreat”. Below, Nina Maldonado shares her heart about the way that God showed up throughout the experience she shared with each of the young ladies who attended.



This was an amazing weekend, not exactly what I expected, but definitely how God wanted it. First off, out of 22 girls invited, 8 girls came to our Esther Treatment Retreat. God revealed that only those who were ready were there.

The goal was to serve these young ladies and treat them like queens by offering beauty treatments and talking about what real beauty is, inside and out. Also to impart to them that before they can make an earthly man their king, they must make Jesus their King of kings.

We enjoyed special sessions by Minelly Jimenez, Diana Serrano, Lynette Morales, Nina Maldonado, and Sandra Dean. The theme was royalty and the session topics were based on inner and outer beauty, being broken before the feet of Jesus, God’s amazing love for us, being married to the King of kings and the continual refining process of royalty. We had a beautiful banquet style meal where the girls dressed up in beautiful dresses and gowns and were served with love and excellence. We went to the creek, played volleyball and had great one on one time.

I believe that this weekend was a weekend of preparation. The process of being prepared as the bride of Christ has been established in the lives of these young ladies. I’m so excited to see what God will do next and that we get to be a part of it is a privilege.

All the girls that went were girls that never really had spent time together outside of Teen Haven in Lancaster. I was a little concerned that since it was a small group, the ice might be a little hard to break, but I was wrong. They connected instantly.

One young lady in particular, Tonya*, just started going to a new high school, McCaskey. She was expressing how she feels alone, like she’s the only Christian there. She didn’t know that two of the other girls with us also went to McCaskey. They invited her to bible club. Tonya left with new friendships and with new confidence, she knows that she’s not walking with Jesus alone at school.

Another young lady, Emily*, is interested in the student leadership program at Teen Haven. She has a heart for children and in her junior year at McCaskey. She has great potential, her heart is set in Christ and if it’s God’s will, we’ll have her on our leadership team this summer.

I thank God that He got us through the planning process with just enough energy to get us through the entire weekend as well. He’s amazing and His purpose surely was accomplished this weekend. We’ll continue to pray that these young ladies will continue to walk in the decisions to make the Lord their King and their Groom.

- Nina Maldonado, Lancaster Girls Program Coordinator, Teen Haven
*name changed

Classroom Kindness

Wonder Club Early Learning Center children are having fun finishing up the school year.
Teacher, Karen Smith, shares a bit about how God has been speaking to the children as they learn together…

The last few weeks we have been talking to the children and learning the passage of scripture in I Corinthians 13: 4-8, You know, “Love is patient , love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast…” We have been really learning this verse and explaining what it means.

Recently, while watching a Christian video on one of the Bible stories we have been learning about, one of the children perked up and said, " He isn't being very kind" in that, another replied " No, he is boasting!" That was great! Yes, he was. Boy do 4 and 5 year olds pick up and learn thing quickly. I just pray that they will always remember God and His word and apply it to their life.

-Karen Smith, Wonder Club

Open House this Weekend

This weekend at Water Street Ministries WE INVITE YOU to join us for our OPEN HOUSE. Here's a look at the schedule of activities. For a closer look just click on the schedule itself...



An exciting addition to the Open House is the "What Is Home" photo exhibit featuring children who live here at Water Street Ministries and their personal understanding of what "home" really means to them. The photo messages are shared from children at the Family Shelter along with students with Wonder Club Early Learning Centers.

Below is one of the images you'll see as a part of this display this weekend, but you'll have to visit the Open House to see the entire exhibit.
Hope to see you at our Open House!

“It’s Not Dark Yet but It’s Getting There”

The night is about over, dawn is about to break. Be up and awake to what God is doing! Romans 13:12a (The Message)

Song to reflect upon:

Eight of our residential men have died in the last 3½ years. Some lived on this campus; others had moved out. Each had a degree of relationship with us, with the Lord and with recovery. Several relapsed, one committed suicide, all died deaths hastened by a long history of abuse and destructive choices. Their deaths brought sadness to our community.

I am hopeful that the reality of their deaths will also bring a sense of urgency to both staff and the residents still living here. Not an urgency springing from desperation but a resolve to put aside anything that would distract us from what’s vital.

Do our residents understand how fragile life is – how it could end at any time? Are our staff members willing to lay aside anything – agenda, theological non-essentials, ego, fear, personal comfort – in their desire to remove relational barriers with the people who live here? Because hope for living and for heaven comes only from God as He works through relationships with Himself and through others.

How easy it is to be diverted from the life-giving capacity of the gospel when its truth is blurred by arguments about non-essentials of the Christian life.
Death is real and should sober us. Bob Dylan’s lyric, ‘it’s not dark yet, but it’s getting there,’ well describes the inevitable death that ends a difficult life. We are all moving toward physical death the timing of which is truly in God’s hands. And it is only the gospel – shared by those who are also dying – that can bring life.

The night is progressing. But the night will give way to the dawn! As Bruce Cockburn sings, ‘joy will find a way.’ May we be fervent and urgent in our love for each other!

“Lord, help me to lay aside my agenda and allow your heart for others to grip me.

-Steve Brubaker, Chief Vision Officer for Water Street Ministries

Reaching for a Promise

At the Lydia Center staff continuously discover creative ways to encounter the Lord and bring those encounters into the ministry. Through the following unexpected experience, Paula, the Kitchen Manager at Lydia Center shares a story of how God’s promises were revealed to her…

After a frustrated moment in my day, I logged off my computer and reached for ‘a promise’. If you knew me well, you would probably jump to the conclusion that this ‘promise’ was a piece of chocolate. Not this time.

In my first year at the Lydia Center I was given a beautifully hand painted wooden box. The artist’s brush filled the top of the box with a bouquet of roses. They are a delight to my eye. But the real treasure lies within the box. Nestled there are strips of paper with verses of scripture printed on them. Each one is a promise for me from my heavenly Father.

Today my promise was from Proverbs 3:5. “Lean not unto thine own understanding but trust in the Lord with all your heart.”

No wonder I was not accomplishing anything to my satisfaction. I had been so busy trying to get things done on my own that I was forgetting to trust God. I went to my knees, asked for forgiveness and said a prayer of thanksgiving. Then I tackled my next task with God at my side.

Who knows. When I finally get my desk cleared off maybe I’ll find some chocolate…….

- Paula Sentgeorge, Kitchen Manager - Lydia Center

The "Us & Them" Paradox (part one)

Life at Water Street often involves living with paradox. Please take the time to read both of the posts below... Aaron Eggers, from our Men's Ministry challenges us to think about the "Us & Them" paradox.

My concern today is about us & them. As a “Gospel” rescue mission one would assume that we, beyond most, would be appalled at any sort of us & them kind of thinking. Whether we are speaking of client/staff us & them or racial us & them or economic us & them or educational level us & them or almost any other kind of us & them, our position of record would most likely be, “We are against it.”

Us & them thinking sneaks in everywhere, even among us whose mission it is to help erase the lines between us & them. You can find us & them thinking here as we align ourselves by gender, department, by our place in the hierarchy of leadership or income level.

Though we say we don’t like the distance that separates us & them, and many of us will even claim that we are really no different than them, still, I think we wouldn’t necessarily want to be one of them. I think that’s the real problem; being one of us makes us feel somehow better than one of them.

We (us) have been talking a lot lately about poverty (them). I wonder what will change because of that. Will any of us make any choice today that will make any difference to any of them?

Sometimes I’m embarrassed to be one of us. I don’t think Jesus was one of us. I think He actually prefers to be counted among them. We prefer us. Something is wrong with that. I wonder what life would be like if we preferred them to us.

Today I asked myself, ‘What have I personally, concretely, recently done to erase the line between us & them?’ I was saddened by the answer.

We have been offered a solution however:

“…with humility of mind regard [them] as more important than [us]” Paul, the Apostle (parentheses mine)

Dare we take the solution?

Imagine.

- Aaron Eggers, Men’s Ministries

The “Us & Them” Paradox (Part two)

Though it has become popular these days to ridicule any sense of us & them distinctions, I wonder how far it will go. My question is, “How far should we go in trying to erase the lines between us & them?” Is there any time where a clear us & them distinction is good and right?

When I go to my auto repair place I think I prefer them distinguishing clearly between those (them) who can repair motors and us who cannot. From this simple example many more spring to mind where a clear distinction separating us & them is important.

Here are a few:
Who treats the sick: them or us?
Who enforces the laws: us or them?
Who flies the planes: them or us?
Who teaches the children: us or them?
Who runs the company: them or us?
Who makes the rockets: us or them?
Who makes nuclear reactors: them or us?

I am sure there are many more examples of us & them categories about which we are very glad that they exist. But it seems to be getting to the point where any notice of any difference of skill or resource level is considered demeaning in some way.

Sometimes even here on campus we are made to feel as though we are supposed to apologize for having something to offer our clients (them). Further, even to believe we have something to offer them is seen as arrogant.

Why is this helping ministry singled out as ‘condescending’ for believing we have what they need? When did us offering a cup of cold water out of our supply to them, who have no water, become a bad thing.

I continue to encounter voices that seem to think that homeless and /or addicted people (them) are the same as us. They are not. If they were we would all be homeless and/or addicted or none of us would be.

We work with a unique population, and working with this population requires as much, or more, skill and training as any other field of life. Let’s stop apologizing for being experts in our field. If I am ever in need of these services again, I want someone working with me who knows what to do to help me.

I don’t see the problem with recognizing the differences between us & them. A clear understanding of these differences is exactly what helps us to help them.

- Aaron Eggers, Men’s Ministries

Stories told through film...& Upcoming Open House photo project preview

As the photographer at Water Street I have the opportunity to tell many wonderful stories through images. Normally this involves telling the powerful testimonies of our clients but today was a bit different. Three very adorable mini-events happened today where I just had to take some photos!














First, the little one’s that are living in Water Street Mission took part in a project we are doing for our Open House on May 3 (you should come by the way!) They were asked to describe what “home” means to them through some words and artwork. Here are a few teasers, but come to the Open House to see the whole thing! We also may have a show up this summer in a local coffee shop!





























Second, baby Landon came in for a visit! Landon is our previous Volunteer Coordinator’s very first son! Believe it or not he’s only about a month old! Love that Mohawk…














Third, Jennie, our Grant Coordinator brought in her mother’s new puppy. He definitely got passed around the office, and even made a visit to the kids in the Mission last week, where he became BFF with Elmo!

Hope to see you at our Open House! - Carrie Keagy, Development Department

Two birthdays (for one girl) at camp

Last weekend at Teen Haven Camp eleven young ladies came to the Lord, six of these ladies had made first-time decisions to accept Christ.

Vinny Mikusow, Teen Haven Camp Director shares the following story of how God’s grace was at work in the midst of this weekend.

“It was Friday night and the young ladies started settling in the cafeteria. As they shuffle in, one young lady stood out dramatically. Her right eye was partially shut and discolored. On her forehead was a huge lump, covered with gauze and tape. As we talked, Talia* informed me that a car hit her on Thursday.

I was taken back when Oddet called me over and shared a note from her mother. I was amazed, as I read the following.

To whom it May Concern:
Talia was hit by a car on Thursday 4/2/09. A doctor at the emergency room saw her and she is fine. The bruise over her right eye is from the accident and it is okay. She does not need any medication for it. She is to keep the bandage clean and dry. If you have any questions feel free to call me.
Thanks

I went back to Talia and asked her to fill me in on the details of the accident. She looked
at me with a smile, squinting, and said, “ I was crossing the street when a car hit me. When it hit me, it made me hit another car with my head.” She then smiled and said, “Today is my birthday.” I wished a happy birthday and off she went.

We kept a close eye on her all weekend. Talia turned out be a spunky and energetic young lady. Sunday morning we presented her with a birthday present and sang Happy Birthday to her.

There was a double blessing as we sang to her. Talia was celebrating two birthdays.
The One that spared her life Thursday presented her with eternal life on Saturday.
Happy Easter Talia!”

-Vinny Mikusow, Teen Haven Camp Director

“Take heed that ye despise not one of these little ones; for I say unto you, That in heaven their angels do always behold the face of my Father which is in heaven.”
Matthew 18:10

*name changed

A "God Box Moment" from the Lydia Center...

On Thursday, March 5th, I went to Sight and Sound and saw “Behold the Lamb." I saw how Jesus took the beatings and whipping and then was hung on the cross.

That night I when I got back to the center I forgave my father for all the abuse that he had done to me in my childhood. I prayed to God and told him, “ I cannot judge him anymore; He’s in your court now.”

Also, through the play I realized that when Jesus was hanging on the cross and His Father rejected Him, He felt alone for that moment of time; sometimes I feel alone and now I know He knows what I am going through in that moment.

- Amanda, Lydia Center resident

Staff are ministered to as well...

Working here at the Water Street has touched me in so many ways. I have been blessed just by being able to help others here. My home life is so much better, at least from my perspective. I have grown immensely in Christ and have become a better person myself.

I believe that Water Street Ministries not only helps the homeless and those who are “down on their luck”, but the ministries here also enable people to help themselves. I have been able to see more of the “big picture”, and understand it is not about what we want. It is all about God and his will.

Being able to talk with a few of the men and women here and develop a bit of a relationship with them, I have been able to see the understanding that others have as well. When they are learning and progressing through the programs it can be hard to see the big picture, but it is so rewarding to hear their stories at graduation and see how far they have come.

God, I just thank you for the awesome opportunity to be able to work in such a blessed place. Thank you for everything you have done, are doing, and everything you have planned. You are all knowing and we trust in you for everything….AMEN

-Michael Redcay, IT Department

Outreach impacts...

Outreach Ministries is the department of Water Street Ministries that was probably the first to see the impacts of the economic downturn in terms of people seeking services. At Outreach, we provide food, clothing and furniture to families in need in our immediate community. We do this through partnerships with local churches and social service agencies, and through direct food distribution at our Prince St location. We routinely see over 300 individuals or families coming each week to receive food to assist with their household needs.

Successfully serving so many people depends heavily on the hands and hearts of faithful volunteers. The following videos give you a chance to learn a little about some of the volunteers that help Outreach Ministries work...

Thoughts from Conrad, OM Director:

Meet some volunteers:

AH HA! Moments

Since I arrived at the Lydia Center 2 ½ years ago I have always thought of the Learning & Career Center as a place where I would have an opportunity to see the real person as they worked through some frustrations but also it would be a place where I could encourage the ladies to see God in the practical everyday things in life – reading, writing and arithmetic.

Every day we begin our classes with prayer and we ask God to give us “AH HA” moments. We need Him desperately to show His power to overcome some very painful (and for some what feels like hopeless) barriers in learning. We have had ladies with a wide range of academic skills come through our doors. Many come with not only low academic levels but with little or no belief that they could even learn anything because of either poor experience in school, years of drug / alcohol use or a combination of these.

One particular young woman tested with a 3rd grade math level. Almost her entire school experience was filled with being told that she was stupid, she would never be able to learn and other degrading things. She had a huge fear of not only me (being an instructor) but of the academic work. There were many times I had to do a lot of coaxing to just get her into class. It took a lot of encouragement for her to even allow God to do with her academic work what He was already doing in her emotionally and spiritually.

I will never forget the day that in the middle of class she yelled out, “I GOT IT! I FINALLY GOT IT! I never thought I would EVER get this”. What a breakthrough for her (and those who were around) to experience God in an area that had once brought much frustration and pain. She got to experience God in a very practical way. God is SO big and has a heart and desire to be known in His fullest.

- Carrie Libonati, Lydia Center

Mentors matter

Mentors are a special part of the addiction recovery programs at Water Street Mission. Serving as a sounding board and friend, mentors help clients walk through and live out what God’s teaching them. Ultimately, mentors are established as a healthy relationship for a client’s transition back into society.

Here are some comments that Lee, a mentor, recently shared about Don, his mentee.

“Don has made great progress and looks forward to the completion of his GED. You folks at [Water Street Ministries] have poured new life into him – and he is really grateful to you! Perhaps I just came on for the time to assist what you at the Mission have been doing!

It was interesting to me that Don said that he was concerned about me. I think that that is really a great focus change for him – when he starts being interested in other people and their difficulties. We can praise God for grace abundantly showered and provided for Don.”

Days full of joys and sorrows...

Working at Water Street, friends often comment about "how rewarding our job must be." Sometimes I feel like responding, "It depends on the day." Honestly, if our job satisfaction depended on heartwarming outcomes, we'd all be a bit manic-depressive. Thankfully, there is a greater hand at work. Our receptionist, Eunice Kolb, shares below about the ups and downs and her source of hope:

Last week, I happened to meet a former client as I left at the end of the day. He had been a “featured testimony” some years back. He had gone through the program, he developed a hunger for the Word and was eager for fellowship with brothers in Christ. He even got a job, got married, had a lovely child and an apartment.

...Then somehow he was back in jail! What a disappointment! But here he was, now, out of jail, working on getting back what he had lost.

Another day I got a phone call from a former client who became an employee of the Mission for a time. He was going on with the Lord, happily married, established in a church, and rejoicing in the Lord.

...Yet on the same day there were some violent altercations on our campus.

The days are full of joys and sorrows. I am glad that, "my Help comes from the Lord who made heaven and earth.” (Psalm 121:2)

Sharing life over lunch

As I sat discussing the day’s event with a co-worker during lunch a man placed his tray on the table and sat down next to me. We exchanged greetings at which time I found out his name was Geoff. Then he commented on the meal, saying “great food we have up here”. The phrase with the words up here made me question where this man may be from. Geoff said he was originally from Pennsylvania, but had been living in Alabama most recently.

The conversation continued with Geoff sharing how he was led to come to Pennsylvania in search of a job. In fact he had an interview that very afternoon. He spoke with such confidence about finding employment. It was somewhat surprising. Here was a man who had nothing. He was living in the emergency shelter at the mission after hitching a ride from Alabama. It was obvious he had not shaved, nor was he neatly groomed, but he knew he was going to impress the socks off of the person he would be speaking with about a job.

For the next 20 minutes I sat and listened to this man tell his story. A story of how he once lived the high life with a top level job, great house, nice cars and a family. How an addiction had caused him to throw all that away. How after seven years of drifting and doing whatever he could to survive he was ready to change. He had been broken and now he was looking to make amends.

He also revealed the true reason he had come to Pennsylvania. He was indeed looking to land a job, but before he could start a new life he needed to make restitution for his past. There were outstanding fines and other unpaid debt Geoff needed to tend to. This resulted in Geoff spending some time in jail. A price he was willing to pay for the Bible told him he could not be set free until he repaid his debt. Not unlike the price which was paid for our sins.

After serving his time Geoff tried to reconnect with his family and explained his new outlook on life. With nowhere to go Geoff came to Water Street and while staying in the emergency shelter he answered an ad for a job. Despite his disheveled look Geoff must have made a positive impression at his interview that day. Four days later Geoff was offered the job. A very long journey was about to end in peace for a man who had trusted his heart to the lord.

- Keith Shetter, Development Department

After 50 years... a new start

After 50 years of living for drugs and men, Christine* now has a changed life! She’s living drug-free, setting healthy boundaries in relationships and getting involved in a local church. She will soon move into an apartment all her own, a real change for a woman who has only ever lived with friends, family or even strangers. Knowing that the presence of money is a trigger for her returning to drugs, Christine has a payee to help her manage her income and bills.

Christine says she wants to live her next 50 years differently. “I’m filled with gratitude for this place,” she says of Water Street Rescue Mission.

*Name has been changed.

Nap-Time?

Being in school for a full-day can be exhausting for a 4 year old. Because of that, we incorporate a short "nap time" into our full-day pre-K classes at Wonder Club. Sometimes the kids have other ideas...





"The other day at nap time there were about five children that just did not want to nap. You know, feet up in the air, going to the bathroom 1-2 times. They simply would not rest. Nap time was almost over, when I was doing some work. I started to softly sing "White As Snow, my sins are forgiven." Half way through, I forgot the rest of the words so I stopped singing. To my delight I continued to hear the song being sung by five soft voices. When they were finished I started to sing more songs which they joined in. The other children woke up and joined into the song. We had our own little hymn sing, how precious!"

- Karen Smith, Wonder Club, Assistant Pre-K Teacher

Program Staff bonding

This is a little late hitting the blog (my apologies)...

To celebrate this Christmas season our Program Staff braved a rainy day in Lancaster City for a scavenger hunt. Teams bonded while creatively photographing their team in a random fashion at sights around the city.

How can we speak to the dead in such a way that they will hear?

“As for you, you were dead in your transgressions and sins … “(Ephesians 2:1)

Pastor Doug spoke from Ephesians 2 a while back and highlighted verse 1 where Paul reminds the Christians at Ephesus of their past:

“As for you, you were dead in your transgressions and sins …”

And his challenge to us was this:

“We need to learn how to speak to the dead in such a way that they will understand.”

How easy it is to disregard the audience when our only consideration is whether we are ‘preaching the truth!’ Have you ever asked a ministry worker: ‘How did the lesson (or sermon) go?’ And have you received a reply similar to this: ‘Well there were three good points with a nice illustration and I ended with a tear-jerker of a story so it seemed like things went well.’ But the real question is this: “Have the people heard?”

Think of it. When a missionary immerses himself in an unfamiliar society, he will spend time learning the cultural intricacies, the language, and the value system and world view of the host culture. And why does the missionary do this? He does so in order to effectively communicate the truth of the gospel in a way that can be understood and received by those who don’t yet know Jesus. He wants to know the audience with whom he is speaking. And he wants to know how to connect with them in a way that develops trust and merits being heard.

How different things would be as I interact with the men and the women at the mission if I understood what they value, how they communicate, what their priorities are, and how they view the world! What would a ‘dead man’ want to hear and how could I communicate with him in a way so that he could receive the gospel for real?

“Lord, help me to listen well.”

- Steve Brubaker, Residential Ministries

A message of hope

At the Lydia Center, Water Street Rescue Mission’s long-term recovery program for women, God Box Moments describe the little miracles that happen every day. Here’s one from a client named Nicole:

As a recovering heroin addict, I had been told that the veins in my arm were shot from using intravenously. So whenever I have needed blood work, the nurse would take it from my hand instead of my arm. When I went in most recently to have blood taken, the phlebotomist pricked my hand twice and couldn’t get anything.

She sent for another nurse who came in and immediately grabbed for my arm. I resisted and told her that my veins were shot. She asked why, and I explained about my addiction. She asked if she could check anyway, saying that sometimes the veins come back. Doubting her, I said yes... and then she said something that blew my mind.

She proceeded to tell me that she had also been a heroin addict, but she got sober when she was 21 and has been sober ever since. I’m guessing she was in her late forties or early fifties.

There are many lessons God showed me through this interaction. First, when He says you are a new creation in Christ, he means it! My veins are healed! He also sent me a message of hope through this vessel of a woman. He said, “How much more than sobriety can you have if you follow me!”

Happy Belated Thanksgiving!

Each year during the month of November, the staff and students at the Lancaster Wonder Club School focus on Thanksgiving and having an attitude of gratitude. We spend time talking about the many good things we have to thank God for. We also learn about the Pilgrims and Indians and their celebration of what we know of as “The First Thanksgiving.”

One of the things we enjoy is the celebration of our own Thanksgiving Feast. The dining room staff willingly prepares a Thanksgiving lunch for the children, delivers it to the Covenant site in time for lunch, and even comes back for the leftovers! It is a special treat from the normal everyday packed lunches and both staff and students alike look forward to the turkey dinner with all its trimmings. For some children it is their first taste of cranberry sauce and, believe it or not, pumpkin pie!

KidWriting exercise “I Am Thankful for ____.” On this day the one kindergarten class had an opportunity to draw pictures of what they were thankful for on extra large sheets of paper and then complete the sentence. In the picture Alissa is thankful for turkey!

The children enjoy making costumes and dressing as Pilgrims and Indians for the feast.Special activities are high energy. Sometimes we just need to get the wiggles out. In the picture the children are marching around the room while singing “Marching in the Light of God’s Love.”

- Lorraine Brandt, Wonder Club (photos by Carrie Keagy)

January 20th, 2009

Inauguration Day 2009 with the men in morning chapel

What does this inauguration mean to you personally?

• ‘A lot of change is coming’


• 'This is the fruit of a movement that began a long time ago.’


• ‘I’d never thought I’d live to see the day when an African-American could be elected President!’


• ‘Today, in a way, stands for equality.’


• ‘If the door doesn’t stay open – this will mean nothing!’


• ‘People woke up.’


• ‘I don’t want to see him as a black man who became President, but a President for all who leads us all.’ (Spoken by an African-American gentleman)


• “Jesus said, ‘watch and pray.’’

-Steve Brubaker, Residential Ministries